Ladies, tonight, let me teach you something about Men’s biology

I hope this explains why he want to bang you all the time, even if it is a quickie.

Men literally produce between 10 and 20 times more testosterone than women. That is not a small amount as it sounds. That is an entirely different hormonal reality.

Testosterone doesn’t just drive sex. It drives his;

• Aggression,
• Ambition,
• Competitiveness, and
• His literal need to pursue, protect, and provide.
  Those are not separate functions. They are one engine.

So the same hormone that’s fueling his drive at work is the same hormone that makes him protective, it’s the same hormone that motivates him to build a future, and it’s the same hormone fueling his desire for you.

Men need to bang you to regulate themselves. This is why semen retention without an objective can turn a man into a different beast. There must be a place this testosterone is channeled.

Picture this; he had a brutal day at work. He had to deal with different situations, difficult clients, his boss was tough on him, or something he wanted just went absolutely wrong. Then he comes home and reaches for you.

And the first thing you think is that he’s doing it while ignoring that you’re tired or stressed or not in the mood. You got it wrong. He’s doing it because you are literally how he comes back to himself, and you are denying him.

That is not selfish behavior. It’s one of the most vulnerable things a man can actually do, and you’re turning it away.

So if your reaction to that is,

“I am not in the mood”

“Make it quick”.

Understand that he just doesn’t move on from that at all. You are inflicting a low blow to his ego and to his nervous system.

He is going to retreat quietly and feeling completely defeated.

Most women think about rejection the way they experience it. They feel sad, they talk to somebody about it, they cry, they process it, and then move through it.

But that’s a very feminine response to pain. Men don’t do that. For a man, being turned down by his own woman repeatedly, dismissively, or both, it doesn’t just hurt him in the moment. It hurts at the level of his masculine identity.

Be glad when he reaches out consistently. Kwanza kama amefast.

I rest my case.